How to Choose a Therapist in Downers Grove, IL: 7 Questions to Ask
Searching “therapist near me” returns hundreds of names. Here is how to narrow the list to someone who actually fits what you need.
Christine H. Stryjewski
MBA, MSW, LCSW, CADC

Deciding to start therapy is a big step. Finding the right therapist can feel like a bigger one. Downers Grove and the surrounding DuPage County communities have many qualified counselors, and the sheer number of options can be overwhelming. These seven questions will help you sort through the directory listings and find someone who is a genuine fit.
1. What are their credentials, and what do the letters mean?
In Illinois, licensed therapists include Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSW), Licensed Clinical Professional Counselors (LCPC), Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFT), and clinical psychologists (PsyD or PhD). All can provide psychotherapy. Beyond the license, look for additional certifications relevant to your concern. For example, a Certified Alcohol and Other Drug Counselor (CADC) has specialized, state-recognized training in substance use treatment. If alcohol or drugs are part of your picture, that credential matters.
You can verify any Illinois license through the Illinois Department of Financial and Professional Regulation’s online lookup.
2. Do they specialize in what you are dealing with?
Most therapists list a long menu of issues. Look for the ones they emphasize. A clinician who writes at length about trauma, grief, or addiction likely has depth there. Ask directly: “How much of your practice involves clients with my concern?” If your situation is layered, such as depression alongside a cancer diagnosis, or anxiety alongside drinking, look for a therapist who can treat those together rather than referring you out.
3. What is their approach, and does it match how you want to work?
Evidence-based approaches like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Motivational Interviewing have strong research support. Some clients want structured, skills-based sessions with homework; others want more exploratory conversation. Neither is wrong, but you will make faster progress with a therapist whose style suits you. Ask what a typical session looks like.
4. Do they take your insurance, and what will it actually cost?
Ask whether the therapist is in-network with your plan, what the session fee is, and whether they offer a sliding scale. If they are out-of-network, ask whether they provide a superbill for reimbursement. Then call your insurer to confirm your outpatient mental health benefits, deductible, and co-pay. A reputable practice will be transparent about fees before your first visit, and under the No Surprises Act you are entitled to a Good Faith Estimate if you are paying privately.
5. Can you actually get there, or get online?
Consistency is one of the biggest predictors of progress. A therapist with evening hours near the Metra line is easier to see weekly than one who only works mornings across town. Ask about telehealth, too. Illinois-licensed therapists can see you by secure video anywhere in the state, which is a lifeline during busy seasons, illness, or bad weather.
6. Are they accepting new clients, and how soon?
Directory profiles are not always current. Call or email to confirm availability. Many therapists, including those at Affirm Behavioral Health, offer a free brief consultation so you can ask questions before committing to a full session.
7. Do you feel comfortable with them?
Research consistently finds that the relationship between you and your therapist is one of the strongest predictors of outcome. After a consultation or first session, ask yourself: Did I feel heard? Did they explain things clearly? Could I imagine being honest with this person? It is fine, and common, to meet with more than one therapist before deciding.
A note on what makes Affirm Behavioral Health different
Christine H. Stryjewski holds both LCSW and CADC credentials, has advanced training in oncology social work, and spent years in medical care before becoming a therapist. That combination lets her treat anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, and substance use together, with particular depth for clients facing cancer, chronic illness, or caregiving. The office is in downtown Downers Grove near the Main Street Metra station, with weekday afternoon and evening hours and telehealth across Illinois.
About the author
Christine H. Stryjewski, MBA, MSW, LCSW, CADC, is the founder of Affirm Behavioral Health, PLLC in Downers Grove, IL. She has more than 35 years of experience in behavioral health, holds advanced training in oncology social work, and provides therapy in person and online across Illinois. Learn more about Christine.





